Wednesday, October 8, 2014

The Art of Understanding …



Some people are so understanding! I am not one of those people. I used to be but, something happened and now I believe in payback like a nonsense. I know it’s uncouth but, I can forgive you and never ever interact with you again. I don’t know whether that is forgiveness. I’ll ask someone relevant.
How do you trample someone down and expect that person to understand. If you lack a valid reason, why even start with giving reasons? No wonder people hate excuses. I am among those who prefer an apology. It saves lives. But trust me, it will come from you on your own accord.
You know, come to think of it, God’s way looks stupid to some people but it has enough lessons. I have noticed a difference in someone with the real God and someone else. You can be good but that is not enough. People change and become something else.  I guess sacrifices are in order. Jeez! I wonder if I can sacrifice that much!
The biggest problem I have faced is learning to separate expectations from reality. I know we are told to expect nothing in return but that is so not human. I do not use 100% of my brain. I can do this but, only if I am not human.
I like being human. The mistakes, the sacrifices, the triumphs, everything about being human is just good.
It will not make anything better but, it shows morals and integrity. I think values are important in a person. Those without values belong someplace else away from those with values. If values mean nothing to you, then I want to interact with you in another life. If I never cross paths with you, the better!
No! I won’t do anything to you; I just think that drama is not worth it.
The thing is, you have to be responsible for your actions. Whatever they may be, make sure they are legit and you can handle the heat. If you can’t, too bad. The heat won’t care!
There is always hope. Look harder.
Hope is not for a certain cluster alone. If it was not there, people would have nothing to live on. Hope is very important. You need to hope that things will work out fine. Values, remember?
You are either a sheep or a wolf! You can’t be both. No way!
For those who want to play with sheep, remember, even sheep can kick you. Don’t think they can’t defend themselves. They sure can.
The problem with being a sheep is conforming. It is not easy to conform to just anything. A wolf on the other hand is free. Free to maul sheep, free to be wolves, free to play hide and seek. Just free. But, there sure is loneliness. You have to feel free to be lonely!!!
Someone once said, the price of fame is loneliness. And I say, the price for conforming is boredom. Those who fit these groups are happy people. The rest of us just hide. It becomes hard to hide but sometimes necessary.
Anyway, making a wise decision is sometimes super hard!!!
So what are you? A sheep or a wolf?

(Thinking out Loud:)Where is this picture? I'll keep looking!


The future belongs to those who know where they belong. I couldn’t agree more with this statement.

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