Clash Mode …

What happens if your beliefs clash with the real life? Nobody has an answer and you find yourself between worlds. Both worlds work for you. Okay with a few compromises of course, in both areas. Do you throw your beliefs to the dogs ad embrace the real life or do you stick with your beliefs through thick or thin and forego life?

You know, you should do what you can and forget what you can’t. Remember the serenity prayer? This calls for serious wisdom. These are the times I wish I were Solomon.

I’ve not had such hard decisions to make. This is my first and it is haard! But, I think I know what to do. Admitting it is the hard bit.

Previously, other people made decisions for me. I won’t say I liked them. You honestly cannot assume you know what is good for me without asking for my input. That’s just crazy!

Whatever is good for me, I voice it out loud. It is hard to hide what you like. It becomes a festering wound that needs to be removed. This wound is what turns out to be major flaws if ignored.

People won’t understand major flaws. And they shouldn’t. They just won’t! Yeah, your momma can but that does not make it right. Moms are just out of this world! For real!

 In the end, your life will tell your tale.

Mistakes happen, but that does not mean you keep excusing yourself in the name of mistakes. No! Learn and move on.

You will be tolerated for a while. The rest of the time, you will be paying for your crimes in one way or another. Who needs that? We all want forgiveness.

Anyway, I’m not delegating decision making duties anytime soon. I am talking about personal decisions. Everyone has them. If you don’t have decisions to make, good luck in the world. I’ll decide and choose what is good for me. In the end, it is so worth it. This is a burden I am willing to bear.  I think the first step is just hard, but it becomes easier as you go on.

Sometimes people can be shallow. What do you need? Not what do you want? Need vs wants. On most occasions, our wants are very shallow. They are influenced by shallow things. Well, life is not like that, my friend. You have to choose and decide what’s good for your life otherwise you are just another drop in the ocean.

I have realized there will always be a better deal unless what you have is ordained. If it is not ordained, you and the wind have no difference. You will sway until you want to give up. Stand up for something or fall for anything.

Not everything is good for you. No matter how attractive.

Ask yourself whether anything you desire is worth it. If not, why bother?

Needs on the other hand, are valid. I’m yet to see needs that are not valid. They are the reason you are alive. Needs such as healthy foods allow you to see many days. Without health, you’ll wish you were dead! It is very easy to live strong and healthy. Most people don’t get it, but that does not refute the truth.

Well, I’m not saying you become a fanatic, but mind yourself. You gotta love what you are.