I have realized...

When you have a man who loves the Lord and loves you next, the need to hit back, the need to be bitter, the need to show how tough you are, all that becomes trivial ... God fights your battles. Trust Him. He ain't nobody. That man atatii.

That is the way to go. You do not have to emasculate him, tear him apart or get mad. Let God handle it.

It sounds stupid but it works awesomely. If God is not your number one, this method will really backfire. Priorities here mean alot. That's why so many people's marriage is a mess. If you don't believe me, check social media. So many complaints! You can imagine death to be better than marriage. The first thing that comes to mind is that marriage is pathetic.

But, marriage works. It only works with God. Just because so many people propagate a negative ruse, does not mean that  that's your story. It was God's idea to make marriage, if you keep Him out of it, how do you expect it to work?

This reminds me of people who don't believe dreams come true. Theirs, obviously, never came true. The question is : How do you expect God given dreams to come true if you keep shutting Him out?

It is official, anything God agrees with, man cannot make it work without Him. Dreams, marriage: you name it...

Many people do not want to lose control of the situation but let me ask you one sensible question: If you believe that God created you, what makes you think He cannot deal with your problems? 

Unless you do not believe in God, this logic should make sense to you. If you do not believe in God, do yourself a favor and stop reading right now!

The funny thing is: All men expect this. Which worldly woman will treat you this way? Most guys do not have a flawless record yet they expect perfection in a woman. Absurd!!!

You attract what you are. Previously, I said otherwise. I was wrong. You attract what you are.

No wonder stooges, door mats and punching bags are actually a thing. If you do this for a guy who doesn't love you , expect to be any of the above.

God is love. This ain't love!

I wanted to say saved but I have seen saved guys divorce, have side dishes, just crap. The thing here is, if a guy claims salvation, he must have the Holy Spirit. By the way, not everyone with the Holy Spirit can be your soul mate. The deep has to call the deep. That cannot be faked. Way to nail a guy! 😀😀😀

If this looks cruel, remember you are in marriage all your life!

I have seen two people live awesomely. They loved one another. That is the thing.

Love here is the thing. God is love. You cannot say this in any other way. I do not know how to emphasize this. This is the secret to a working marriage.
When you are in a working marriage, you won't be among the whiners.

With God, dreams and perfect marriages are possible. Let the unbelievers not convince you otherwise.

TWO

When you feel you have to fight to get your way and you make sense,  even God agrees, walk away. That's a joke you are dating. This is meant for unmarried folks.

The funny thing is...

I used to think everyone is a friend. Talk of naivety. But I have come to realize that there are only two categories of people. Your real friends, enemies and pretenders who are just plain enemies.
So, friends and enemies; Two.

Now, friends stick with you. The circumstances do not really matter. Jesus' love is like that. These people are gems. Really.

Enemies. This is interesting.
The people who show you to your face that they are enemies are way better than those people who pretend to care but really they feel good when you are in pain.
Atleast you know where you stand with the first category of enemies. The second category can really fool you. Fortunately, it is so hard to act like a sheep through out when you are a wolf. At some point you'll get hungry... And you don't eat grass.

When you are with friends, you feel safe. You know that you will always be home among your friends despite your flaws. Now, if you know you can work on your flaws and you don't, you are doing yourself a disservice. Remember God's word says you will reap what you sow. So, if you expect to be loved: flaws and all, without question, prepare to do the same.You sowed it, remember? It's really not revenge. It's God's word and it doesn't fail. Promise.

Amazing. God's law is perfect.

Yeah, back to pretenders. The funny thing with pretence is that expect kuingia kwa kisima ukichimbia mtu.
It's funny that when someone is plotting evil against you, the person never sees the plan backfiring . Also, even when you mean no harm but you go against God's law, you will pay. I never knew that. I have experienced it. Now, I know.

I'm not flawless and I will surely pay for sins I commit. I try not to hurt God's creation. The good news is that I know who I am and since God is so merciful to His children, I fear no evil. He knows how to gently correct me.

If that job was left to my enemies, they'd kill me. Kilightning kinaeza nigonga vibaya sana! 😀😀😀

Thank God He lives.

Never Give Up on God

Only God has the power to bring out the real you. I say this to anyone who never thought much of themselves.

You can give up on everything else and everyone else but not God.

People may think you are crazy,  let them.

The thing is, only you can tell of the inner peace that so many people do not have.

You are precious. God made you. You are very special to Him. He wants you to be at peace. You can only have that when you cling to God.

Someone once said "human beings are so blinded by these 70 short years of their lives."

Too blind to notice that when you start something, you should have already figured out how to end it.

So, if you are living and breathing, figure out how to continue living after these 70 years. If life imekuchosha,  figure out how to burn in brimstone na sijui nini.

When you are at peace, you have everything.

This Spoken Word should tell you how precious you are, It doesn't matter what other people think.

I AM ME
By Anthony Ngachira

I am the longshot
I am the one they never saw coming
I am the life beat of a heart once dying
I am the old horse that keeps kicking
I am truth in a world that keeps lying
I am the runner who though the race ends, keeps running
I am the dancer who keeps moving though the curtains are falling

I am the longshot
I am the raindrop that split the earth
I am the straw that broke the camels back
I am the bullet the vest couldn't catch
I am the arrow the armor couldn't stop
I am the pebble that cracked Goliath's skull
I am the hair grown back on Samson's head

I am the longshot
I am the manifestation of a revolution
I am the symbol of a new generation
I am the underdog who becomes champion

I am Del Monte, picked not just chosen
I am the voice they can't mum
I am the song of hope they can't stop but hum

I am the last of a dying breed
Yet it's hope that I bleed
I am he whose passion is a creed
Created by God's decree

I am the F that made lame hot like flame
I am the G that made low glow

I am change
I am difference
I am uniqueness

I am wine from The True Vine
I am what you cannot be

I AM ME

2016

Now, this is a fresh start for me in a fresh year. All glory to God... I was blind, now I see clearly. All fears that used to bother me are gone; all traps that waylaid me are gone; all things that used to frustrate me are gone, all gone... What can I say...  Dawa iko no matter how evil you imagine yourself to be... Jesus Christ is the answer.

Nobody has to make you acknowledge this... You need to find out for yourself... You may not believe someone else's story... Finding out individually is the best experience you can ever have.

You know, all those people out there who talk about Christ don't care if you think they are crazy, and so do I...  and even if they did, I don't.

I have seen and tasted of God's goodness and I know now that I am a sojourner here so if I sound crazy to you, know that I'm just passing through . I really don't belong here but you will feel me passing... Trust me 