Today I logged into my social wall and read an update that
got me thinking. I have thought severally along those mentioned lines but since
there is no certain answer, I prefer to not think about things that never reach
any conclusions, just speculation. Well, for some people this may be true but I’d
like to think along two lines. Sometimes things are not what they seem to be
and I can attest to that fact.
This lady wonders whether she’s ever met her husband to be.
She wonders whether they’ve met in places she goes to. Well, having liked the
status, I’d say it leaves you wondering: What if? …
Too many things are out of our control and if this happens,
what can you do about it? Nothing! It is disturbing to say the least especially
for those who’d like to think along those lines of “only this piece fits the
puzzle”. I once thought that way but life has taught me otherwise but doubt
still haunts me.
You can waste time crying over failed encounters with
someone you thought completes you or you can move on and let fate do its magic.
Maybe you avoided a series of heartbreaks or maybe that person would have seriously
hurt you then. These are just maybes … no hard facts because no one knows what
could have been … it’s all speculation.
Or...
What if the update leaves an undeniable truth? What if this
is easier said than done? Or what if you are just lying to your dear self?
Everything has its perfect timing and all these “what ifs” get their answer
then.
My advice to the person who wrote this update is that
whatever may have happened or will happen in the future is well known to God.
Leave it to him. You are only human. What can you do about such “hard to
decipher” things?
Don’t kill yourself with thoughts that will leave you
frustrated. Your husband will know you. So will your wife. It’s impossible for
both parties not to know. You just know it. This cannot be explained … and even
if it didn’t happen then, time is still in effect and it just may happen … I’m
no expert but I believe it is called hope …
I’d recommend you watch 3 Idiots … you’ll understand love. It’s
never good to follow a movie but you can’t lie to your heart.
Too bad that’s love …
